CINTA dan USIA

aku ade serong kwn..n msalah dya adelah.. ade lelaki yg berusia 40tahun sukekan dya..ape perasaan korang??mcm mne nk tolak lamaran dya..situasi mcm nie slalu trjd kan??mesti rase xselesa..takut dan macam2 lah..tp ade juga pasangan yang jarak umurnye hngga 30tahun..tp tu smua terletak pd JODOH! !..hm tp mcm mne klu muke lelaki tue mmg terlalu tua bg korang...ADUHH!!bkn nk mnghina..tp mst rse xslesa kn ble lelaki tu slalu gnggu kte..sdgkan kite da berpunye..dan dya pun tahu,,tp tetap nk MENGGANGGU!! hm....kite pun xtahu dya masih bujang atau da beristeri dan ber-anak..so...HOW???spe nk jawab??????

dya membuat kami geli hati

HANIF ZUL antara teman baikku d kolej..dya seorang yg baik..suke tolong org..xske mngeluh dlm ape yg dya lakukan..tp dya ni peminat FANATIK dato' CT..dgr je ade event yg berkaitan CT..mst smpai..snggup bli simply ct..smata2 nk brgmbar dgn CT..jgn xtw..klas pun dya snggup ponteng demi artis pujaan..tp xpe..sbb aku pun minat CT gak..hehe :)
aku ske dgn perwatakan dya,,wlaupun dya nmpk sengal .. tp dya jujur ..yg klakar.. status..komen dya d fb..mst ade typing error..trgelak2 klu aku bace..
Tp..ko mmg seorang yg suke berusaha..hope.1ari ko akan jadi ape yang ko mahukn BABY ! ! haha
I LIKE ! !

surprise anniversary

terharu sgt...dya cume ckp nk berbuka skali je..tbe2 dya  dtg bawakan kek n hadiah..tu smua tuk clebrated anniversary kami..rase mcm nk nangis je...thanx sgt2 sbb berusaha mmbahagiakan saya...saya saya awak ! !

HAPPY ! ! JOM NYANYI.......

t's always been about me myself and I

If all relationships were nothing but a waste of time
I never wanted to be anybody's other half
I was happy to say that our love wouldn't last
That was the only way I knew till I met you

You make we wanna say
I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Yeah, I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Cause every time before we spend like
Maybe yes and maybe no
I can live without it, I can let it go
Ooh, I did, I get myself into
You make we wanna say I do, I do, I do, I do, I do, I do,

Tell me is it only me
Do you feel the same?
You know me well enough to know that I'm not playing games
I promise I won't turn around and I won't let you down
You can trust and never feel it now
Baby there's nothing, there's nothing we can't get through
So can we say

I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Oh baby, I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Cause every time before we spend like
Maybe yes and maybe no
I won't live without it, I won't let it go
Wooh Can I get myself into
You make we wanna say

Me a family, a house a family
Ooh, can we be a family?
And when I'm old and sit next to you.

And when we remember when we said
I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Oh baby, I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Cause every time before we spend like
Maybe yes and maybe no
I won't live without it, I won't let it go
Just look at what we got ourselves into
You make we wanna say I do, I do, I do, I do, I do, I do,
Love you

aku RINDUKAN mereka

sewaktu anniversarry DHC yg pertama..igt lg time nie plan nk karoke..skali pegi..ttbe mhal plak bilik..
tros cancel..masing2 bajet lari..hahaha 

nie sahabat baik saye..sayang mereka..epy n carol...

THE VALUE OF HONESTY IN A RELATIONSHIP

A good thread - anyone who reads my posts will know I REALLY value honesty. Then again I don't take bad truths well,better if put nicely. One of the main reasons I've had probs with my bloke recently is about honesty. He often thinks I'll be mad if he tells the absolute truth and so has sometimes avoided that. I understand the mentality, but the truth hurts much more once it's been turned into a lie. Once I know I've been lied to that truth becomes far more painful than it should have been because there's a sense of build-up and you feel a fool for putting your trust in someone. If it's over worries or insecurities you have (as in my case) it can be VERY hurtful cos you believe that person (I've been trying really hard to BELIEVE and TRUST people which I find hard) and you feel let down on top of everything else. I certainly felt, being lied to, I wasn't being respected, especially as I made it clear that the pain would be much worse if he lied to me and it was just so much better for us both that he was honest, even if it hurt. His trouble is, I think he isn't always sure how to put something tactfully. Men tend to think so rationally and practically they make statements of fact without thinking about how to phrase it carefully so as not to offend. My guy will even say things that aren't his own opinion as though they are opinional fact sometimes because when I'm upset he goes into rational overdrive - kinda scary for an emotional bod like me!! 

I guess I'm honest to a fault some of the time. I can be pretty blunt about someone I don't like but only to their face if I REALLY dislike them! As a result, I can show very aggressive anger to my boyfriend and use impersonal insults, but I can't pick up on personal things I know will hurt him, as he often does to me, as I simply can't be dishonest!

I just think a relationship without honesty is SO difficult and I'm desperately trying to re-inject some honesty/trust into mine so it doesn't happen again. Ok, rant over!